Is this a bad thing? While some people look down their noses at couples who choose to sleep in separate bedrooms, I, among many others, happen to think that there is nothing wrong with this choice. If a couple, together in agreement, makes this decision, then why is it considered such a bad thing? Marriage is forever, which means you and your spouse are spending the rest of your lives together. So deciding to allow one another the freedom to have their own space, is really a good thing. Even though you two are one in the eyes of the LORD, you are still two different people with different needs. When you are planning to marry, hopefully, you plan to do it with someone who, no matter what the arrangements are, will love, respect, and cherish you, and has no problem with the two of you having separate bedrooms. Especially since the two of you will be living the rest of your lives together in the same house. Personally, I think it’s a great option to consider, not to mention, it’s your house, so the two of you can sleep in any bed, or any room that you please. And when it comes to making love, well hell, you can do that in any room too. If we take it one step further, separate bedrooms will be the least of your worries when the realities of life set in, so this doesn’t bother me at all, I think it’s great!